Dan and I were both at work when we found out about Luke's PMG. We immediately came home and got right on the computer. I am thankful I didn't have a smart phone at that point in time because who knows what kind of accident I would've gotten myself into it trying to google and drive myself home in my hysterical stupor!! Whew!
But little good that did us...there wasn't much to find. There was a lot of technical information, research studies, etc. It was scary. Over time I found support groups, awesome blogs and the information I needed to deal with this. We were lucky, soooo lucky, to have a competent and knowledgeable neurologist who not only knew about PMG but knew what we needed to do before and after Luke was born and who is very aggressive in treating Luke. That is NOT the case for a lot of people. The more people I talk to, the more impressed I am with the care we have received. A lot of kids aren't diagnosed until they are toddlers. A lot of neurologists and doctors aren't pushing therapy early - saying that they're too little to start therapy. A lot of therapists, doctors, neurologists, even, aren't terribly familiar with PMG, how it presents itself and how to go about 'treating' it.
Through this blog I have met a lot of amazing people. My friend, Catrina, is a grandmother to Brie who was diagnosed at 3 weeks. She and her daughter, Brandy, had a hard time getting Brie diagnosed because the doctors at the hospital they were at were not even sure how to read the MRI! So Catrina got fired up! Long story short - she and her daughter decided that PMG needed it's very own foundation. It's very own organization. It's very own place to showcase our PMG kiddos, compile PMG information and much more. Really, a place where when someone hears those words that Dan and I heard two years ago, they have a place that they can see hope, happiness, support and love.
And PMGAwareness.org is born...It's still new. And it is so exciting. I keep thinking what it would have meant to us to have this that day just over two years ago when Luke was diagnosed. I don't think it could have made PMG less scary but it would have made it easier.
Check it out. Please. I really believe that PMG is under diagnosed. If awareness is raised maybe more kids can get the early intervention we were privy to due to a knowledgeable team behind us. The more 'traffic' the site gets, the easier it will be for other people to find it when they search PMG. Thanks!
Of course, I must leave you with a picture....Happy boy in the bathtub dunking his head!! Love to you all!
Melanie, when I visited the site I got all choked up. I am so proud of you! (and all the other ladies, too, but I don't know you guys personally-- but, truly, you should all be SO proud of what you have done and are doing!) This is such important work you are doing! It means so much to families. I know I don't have to tell you that because you are the families! But, Mellie, I am so very proud of you. Did you know you would be this person? Did you know this is what your life had in store for you? All because of that foamy-faced little boy! You are a crusader! All I can say is-- What can I do to help?
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ReplyDeleteI can't believe I am just now discovering your blog! I look forward to following adorable Luke's story as it unfolds. Thanks for all you are doing to promote PMG awareness. The new site is great!
xx
Lisa, Callie's Mom :)
Thanks, Lisa!! I love following Callie's story, too!! Her sun glasses are DARLING!! xxx Mel
DeleteMy name is Deb and I live in Melbourne, Australia. My grandson is 19 mths old and was diagnosed with unilateral right sided PMG the day before his first birthday. My daughter and i knew something was wrong, kept taking him back to drs,paediatrican, specialists, they kept telling us he was a premmie baby and the clenching of his left fist was normal but we knew better. It was only after i stamped my foot and insisted on a MRI that we got the diagnosis, the paediatrician had to google PMG. Here in Australia, there are no support groups and we have not been able to find another family with a child with PMG. This website is fantastic, it makes us feel like we are not alone.
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Hi Deb, I'm sorry your family had such a hard time getting your grandson diagnosed. It's so frustrating and so many people run into that same problem. I know of one other family in Australia that I can put you in contact with. Are you on Facebook? There are two great support groups on there where you can get questions answered quickly, advice and support. Please let me know if I can do anything to help you. Best wishes - Mel
DeleteHi there! We are in Australia living on the Gold Coast. We have a son turning 21 next month and we have really been through so much with his health. He suffers in the same way and it's only been today that I have realised that there are others to communicate with. I'm on Facebook and just came across a group. When our son was diagnosed there was no real information for us to read and we couldn't understand the medical terms. Its been a long journey and there's so much more to go through. We would be interetered in sharing our story with those in the same situation. It certainly rings bells when I read some of the story's that have been posted. He's our special son! and we love him. So happy to come across your site! and we too are wondering about a support group here in Australia! Jane
ReplyDeleteJane, how wonderful to meet you. I would love to get to know you and hear more about your son and your lives! There are a couple of good support groups on FB. I know there are a few people in Australia but not sure if there is an official support group. There is also a yahoo group where people share advice, stories, information. My email is melrush75@gmail.com. I'd love to hear from you!
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I have never seen this blog post. Awesome! LOL
ReplyDeleteMel, it was very touching to read your story. I live in WA and a Vertu good friends soon was diagnosed recently and they to are trying to raise awareness of PMG as with many friends and family.
ReplyDeleteYou may already know them, Bent and Michelle Ried.
Within our circle, things are moving very quickly and we are currently raising funds for them to go to America.
Mel, it was very touching to read your story. I live in WA and a Vertu good friends soon was diagnosed recently and they to are trying to raise awareness of PMG as with many friends and family.
ReplyDeleteYou may already know them, Bent and Michelle Ried.
Within our circle, things are moving very quickly and we are currently raising funds for them to go to America.
Mel, it was very touching to read your story. I live in WA and a Vertu good friends soon was diagnosed recently and they to are trying to raise awareness of PMG as with many friends and family.
ReplyDeleteYou may already know them, Bent and Michelle Ried.
Within our circle, things are moving very quickly and we are currently raising funds for them to go to America.